What is that one decison that you are most grateful to yourself for taking?
Personally, it was quitting typae lifestyle and tyape friends thus pursuing self-devlopment.
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What is that one decison that you are most grateful to yourself for taking?
Personally, it was quitting typae lifestyle and tyape friends thus pursuing self-devlopment.
View on r/Nepal by Educational-Snow4555
During the process of joining Bachelors in engineering, I went to the college to enroll my name in Civil Engineering. But the seats for civil engineering were already overlisted.
As an impromptu decision, I enrolled into Computer Engineering, which was not really a preferred engineering choice for that time. Even got scolding from my parents for that.
Today I am a senior software engineer in an international IT company. Best friggin decision I ever made.
Ghar pariwar and gawaaar natedars always told me to go do civil engineering. “Dherai scope cha” they said. I had no idea about it and was always interested in tech related stuffs.
One day I sat down with my mom and she told me something that shaped my future (today). She told me “Babu, hami pade lekheko chaina ra hamilai timile k liyera padhda rammro huncha thachaina. Tesaile timilai j ichhya cha tyai lue.” I then chose CSE and to this day I am super thankful and grateful for this decision.
That reminds me, afno chora chori lai kehi age bhayepachi independent decision lina dinu dherai rammro hundo raicha. My family never nagged me into anything (except ghar ko food). They just were with me through thick and thin and trusted me always. I turned out fugging well.
Moving to Ktm from far-west for Bachelor. A life changing decision not only for myself but my whole family and relatives too.
Having limited income and three children to raise/educate, my dad wanted me to stay home and study Health Assistant so that he can easily afford to educate my two younger brothers too.
I somehow convinced him to let me visit Ktm to see if we can afford it or not. I was sure already I wouldn’t come back. I enrolled into Engineering in a year. My two younger brothers followed me soon after.
We made it through.
Me and my brothers got exposure to different world. I got married to a Kathmandu local girl. Youngest brother studied school/+2 in scholarship.
Another brother started working while studying. Now doing well in his business.
Fast forward, me and my wife, and youngest brother are in Australia. Another brother playing with millions in Nepal.
We have transcended our socioeconomic status by everyone’s expectations. And we are able to help extended family and relatives in need.
Grateful as always!!
quitting insta,facebook and many social media also not using tiktok at all
Removing toxic friends from my life
Not going to Australia after 12th is one of the best decisions of my life.
Deciding to stay in Nepal for my bachelor’s. Sab saathi baira gaye mah CA padhchu vndai eta basya suru ma Tara 2 barsa pachi nasakera chodera baira jnchu sochya thye. Tara family problems le grda namilera i had to stay in Nepal etai bachelors grdai. Aile padhai ma eti dhyang jancha eti Ruchi badheko Cha aafailai achamma lagcha. CA padhne bela ma kina Esto navako bela jsto ni lagcha Tara bidesh gako thiye vane padhai nai birsinthye hola kamaune chakkar ma.
Nothing to be grateful for life’s a mess and will be a mess .
I’m saving this post. If I make one some day, I’ll definitely comment.
Not ending it😀
Every decision I took either the outcome was good or bad. That shaped my life how it is today. I’m grateful to the life I have
Moving to Nepal. I found the person i want to share my life with
RemindMe! 15 years ” kasto chaldaixa jindagi “
Having optimistic thinking despite I’ve had poor academic perfomance my parents thought id be a faliure but I’m not
Decided to come back to Nepal!
It has been so much better for my mental well-being. I am simply happier and that has been a game changer
I don’t think I would have been this happy in life had I stayed back abroad.
And no, I didn’t experience too much hardship when I was there. I was doing excellently well in my studies (completed what I set out to do academically) and good enough professionally (so money was not an issue).
But just never felt at peace when I was there. I just didn’t like the lifestyle and the status as an immigrant from a third world country. I had this lingering feeling that I had such a lot back home that I would not have there.
My biggest strength back home has been the support from family, friends and the network that I couldn’t even dream of when I was abroad. It was a lonely time.
So yes, I am glad I got that one way ticket back home!!
The one best decision that I have ever taken surely was to start reading books. Especially self improvement ones. Reading books completely changed the direction of my life. My thinking , my habits and attitude towards everything has become much more positive.
I have become much more productive due to it with my time and now I don’t waste my time scrolling through social media’s feed or watch some random movie or show.
I realised that I was always seeking for validation from my relationships and had huge trust issues. I was always cautious and rarely showed my emotions with everyone in my life. I always felt lonely and I started understanding why, because I wasn’t letting people in, I wasn’t trusting anyone with my feelings.
So for me it was- I started showing my emotions and being me, specially with the people I thought were close to me. I realised I didn’t need validation from anyone for voicing my opinion, if they want me they’ll want me for me.
And now I’ve started recognising who’s the close one and who’s not. I’ve started recognising who’s toxic and who’s not. Life has started becoming less complicated and I now find myself surrounded by people who actually want me for me.
Moving to Australia was the best decision i ever did
What’s tyape lifestyle? Can you give more details?
khai bro ! usually wrong decision matra vaxa… struggling phase katyo vane ani thaha hunxa k chai right decision vo ya ta tyo paxi ni thahudaina
mid 2000s, breaking up with my gf who went to australia, over the phone, from a cyber cafe in ktm. walking out of that cafe i had the clarity i never had in life. where i am now, i owe it to that day and that decision.
oh and i choose the tyape lifestyle now that everything else is accomplished, i love smoking weed a lot.
Not accepting my crush’s proposal in class 6 just for swag ( I would tell her I love her too few days later ) but next day she was with someone else. 6 years and still regretting
Nothing
being a Buddhist
i have 0 friends
I hope my decisions that I’ll be taking in passing two years be the decision, I can be grateful to myself.
Accepting my man’s proposal 5 years ago , who is going to be my husband very soon ❤️
aaile samma testo decision nai leko xaina…infact deccision line point nai aako xaina…aba chai aauxa hola…just completed my +2 and pretty sure i won’t go abroad…this decision might be one i regret haha…tara i want a decent degree before going abroad….aaile nai gaye bhane ..i might not be able to get a decent degree…tara paisa ta kamainxa hola tara long run ma …i ts not worth it